You’ve been conflating “perfect for you” with “perfect,” and that is the problem. This applies to more than just him. This is about all the things you’ve been willing to receive in your life, and the things you’ve been quick to reject. Perfectly good blessings have probably passed you unnoticed because their packaging had a blemish where your ideal blessing did not.
The problem is that you believe you want perfect, but you don’t. You want something tailor-made to fit you. Something that soars where you fall short, and still makes space for you to shine.
What is perfect for you, a flawed human yourself, will not ever be perfect.
“Perfectly good blessings have probably passed you unnoticed because their packaging had a blemish where your ideal blessing did not”…. this is it!